Today I am depressed. Very depressed. I have a disease; it does this to me. For a while I knew beyond all doubt that it would be the death of me. Now I am uncertain; I no longer believe that this sickness must end in death. If I indulge it, if I give into it, if I let it define me, then yes it shall lead to that road. It shall end there – in death. Is that my identity though? Am I merely someone with clinical depression? No, I must disagree. I am more than that, so much more.
My thoughts turn religious after a while, ideas melt and reform. I have another sickness, and it need not end in death. I think you have it too. The disease of self. Strongly enough self love is commanded by Jesus, “Love you neighbor as you love your self.” From my childhood I knew this meant I should love others. That was before I understood my other disease. Before I knew what it was to be filled with so much self loathing, so much despair that it hurts. I knew then that I should love myself as I love others and I should love others with unending compassion. The disease of self is not self love but self indulgence. If I give myself whatever I desire, is it even love?
I doubt that very much. We justify denying things to children because it is good for them. We say it is out of love. What then is indulgence? Neglect. To give yourself everything you have ever wanted is to be without everything you have ever needed. Given everything without thought or care. Without let or hinderence. Without concern for if it is good or bad for you. Without concern. Without.
Seems strange to describe indulgence as being ‘without’ anything, but there it is. Indulgence leading to death seems a bit far fetched in the religious sense, but all to close to home in another. To follow after my own and leave the things of God behind is classical sin. It is an infraction of the law. Yet is that not to serious, overly strong? That depends, did Jesus not die for the least of our sins amongst the greatest.
Did the Cross not end in death? That sickness ends there, but life goes on.
Unless I keep to myself all things.
~JCPunk